What men and boys generally didn’t get by “to be feminine”?
To be feminine doesn’t mean that us, women and girls have to act like princess all the time, if our nails broke or something like that, to make it outrageous. We can still be feminine and practice hard and contact sports, we can fight, we can be harsh and complicated and still be feminine. How? It’s simple. Every touch of sweetness, every unpredictable look, every desire that we have and every talent that we have define us as women and girls. Everything that you’re good at defines your personality too, bad or good, it does.
We can carry so many things on our shoulders, so many problems and thoughts, sometimes others too and still going on. And still be ok. Even that we are hurt, even that we feel like we can’t breathe anymore, we still continue our path. Even that it kills us, we cry and have moments of crisis, but we continue our life, bad or good. We put so much love in everything we do, some of us without knowing that at that moment, but we put love, affection, interest and attention in the people and things we have and want in our life. That defines us, generally in definition, as women and girls. The implication we have for some things and some people in our life.