As long as you already know , the truth is very rare in our days. Why? Because of so many reasons, but what can I tell you as a piece of advice, from my experience is that, to tell it before it tells itself.
You can hurt somebody you really care of , no matter what is that person to you, a parent, a pan friend, friend, your loved one and so on.
You know, by not telling the truth at its time, you can lose a person too, and when you’ll realise that, you’ll be suffering without a medicine to get better because that person can be gone by then.
I know how is to be hurt because of the truth. You know, we make expectations , so many expectations from life, from people, from what they are telling us and when the truth comes up and slap you in the face, like man that’s the reality, that’s what it is and nothing you expected to happen never happened, hurt you so damn much.
I’ve seen people, recently, being shocked and paralysed because of the truth, because they were lied and suddenly, unexpected, they found out the pure truth. And I understand them, because I’ve been there. Not once.