My favourite comment was that: How can you be so happy and so positive when it’s clearly you have been through a lot?
Man, it’s so good. Well as the quote of this blog says “Happiness is a choice”, no matter the circumstances. I’m not saying that sometimes I’m not having my self-insecures or that I don’t remember some old days when I was more or less happy and all of that. All of us had been through something until now, all of us have been betrayed by someone we once loved. No matter you loved that person as your best friend or more.
Sometimes you just have to refresh your mind and set in it the fact that people change and are changed. And unfortunately, you can’t do anything to bring back the people they once were. You can’t and in a way or another it’s better. Why? Because just this that way you learn your value. Like man, after you have been so broke, so hurt by some people that you once could make anything for them, for the people you haven’t thought one second that could do that to you. It’s hard, I must say that it’s so freaking hard to accept that. To heal is not also so difficult than it is to take them off your mind. But in the end, you will.
Even that I can’t tell you exactly when, because I’m struggling right now with this thing too, more exactly with taking them off my mind, I just can assure you that travelling will help you. If not 50% but 100%. Find something that defines you and also, helps you concentrate and improving yourself. That’s the way to the best endings and to the best days of your life.
I have learnt on my own that being calm and positive in a crazy and bad situation can freak out the naive, fake and false people in your life, and also it helps you figuring out and decide what you have to do next for your good. So, find your calm. It helps a lot, and more important it helps you to focus on everything that leads you to success.