Forgiveness it doesn’t mean always to forgive someone. Sometimes it means to forgive your past actions, yourself, every bad memory and for remembering them.
It can be also a gift to yourself. It frees you from the past, the past experience, past relationships and the past false friendship. It allows you to live in the present time. When you forgive yourself and forgive others, you are indeed free.
I think in this life the hardest thing ever is to forgive someone. Someone you used to think about them as your friends and as your loved ones. You know, as I've said before, people change. Unfortunately, they do. Why? Still don’t know…actually, I can just suppose why. I’m not God to know what they think, the reason of their actions and behavior. Maybe sometimes I’m right, maybe sometimes I’m not, but one thing I can assure you is that: if those people who you were used to think about them as your friends, your loved ones have changed/are changing or are changed by someone and they let him/her to do so, they weren’t your friends from the beginning.
The people who are meant to be in your life, will be no matter what. They'll stay there, unchanged, next to you when you’ll need them and when you’ll be in your worst mood, not just when you’ll be happy and at your best, celebrating. Real friends are those who don’t give up on you, no matter how complicated you are as a person, no matter the issues they have, no matter what others tell them. Real friends aren’t jealous on what you have, they don’t change their behavior suddenly, and surely, they don’t ignore you for no reason or just because. And also, real friends support you, and are happy for you. For what you have realised, for what you have worked so far and for your good results.
Real is rare, and sometimes fake is very similar as real.